KILOMETER THIRTEEN
SUPPORT SERVICES
FAMILY CUSTOM CARE
Experiencing a difficult pregnancy or birth or discovering
that your baby needs intensive medical care can make
it difficult to think. Chaos and uncertainty from the
pregnancy and birth experience may strain family
relationships. The double bind of wanting to care
or your own child while having to rely upon medical
experts, may trigger enormous stress. I will tailor my
services to your family's needs. Please do not feel
compelled to digest the information below, regarding
available support services. Please feel free to to contact
me directly for a free initial consultation to discuss how
Kilometer Thirteen may be of service to you.
Please text for quickest response.
(310) 658-6240
ALL PARENTS MATTER
Kilometer Thirteen works with all parents, birthing and
non-birthing. Every parent plays a special role in the life of
the baby and deserves to be honored, acknowledged,
and supported.​
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Kilometer Thirteen offers support before,
during, and after the NICU stay.
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Kilometer Thirteen works with all parents to process their
own birth stories, so that they may focus on the present,
rather than be hijacked by unconscious and unresolved
feelings from their own past.
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Kilometer Thirteen works with all parents to improve
self-awareness, communication, and partner-partner relational
connection. These skills can be a great resource within
the partner-partner relationship, during the birth, while
coping with NICU experiences, and after the NICU stay.
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Parents are supported to connect with each other and
bond with their baby. Attending to the family relationships
often fosters healthy behaviors in the baby, including
engaged attachment, sound sleep, connected and
conscious crying, ability to settle and soothe,
and engaged feeding.
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​​​​INTEGRATION OF BIRTH STORY
Kilometer Thirteen holds a safe space for families to
process difficult or unpredictable circumstances from
any point in their conception, pregnancy, birth,
and post-birth journey.
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​​​​​​​NICU CARE
Family may not always be able to be present with
the neonate or infant in the NICU. When increased human
connection is desired for your baby, Kilometer Thirteen
can provide supplemental care in the NICU.
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Kilometer Thirteen responds when your neonate or infant
experiences prolonged periods of crying, lack of connection,
fast or slow heart rate, excessive or weak respiratory rate, and
other forms of dysregulation. You may prearrange for K13 to
provide standby services. This also extends to accompanying
your baby during procedures. K13 can help your child to feel
human connection and safety in the midst of chaotic or
disturbing---but necessary---medical care.
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PALLIATIVE CARE
The circumstances of the NICU may place families in the position of
having to make impossible decisions. It is inherent in the nature of
these choices that they are fraught with double binds. Kilometer
Thirteen appreciates the difficulty of sitting in these tensions to
make extraordinarily painful decisions. Kilometer Thirteen
knows that—imperfect though it may be—you have
reached the best decision for you and your family.
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If your baby requires palliative care, Kilometer Thirteen can
supplement family care to reduce any period of time when
your baby might, otherwise, be alone on their journey.
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